Could it be that whatever you're going through right now could be preparing you for something really cool that God wants to give you in the future? But if He gave it to you now, you may end up not appreciating it or squandering it, or maybe even allow it go to your head and become prideful? Most people are better able to handle success when they've tasted failure. God may be working out something in your character now through trials that will enable you to handle great success later.
In my own life, I can attest to this. I went through many years of suffering, crying out to God to save me from a certain situation. Finally after years of whining and complaining, I remember the day I told God. Not my will, but Yours be done. At that point, I was truly willing to gladly bear whatever He allowed to come my way. God had worked out all the pride and independence out of me. And it was then that wonderful things began to happen! But it can't just be words, it has to come from your heart.
I wonder how many people truly miss out on all that God has to give them simply because they weren't willing to learn through the hard times? Pleaes don't let that be you.